If you can't talk to her at all, then it's highly unlikely that she change her current behavior to your fantasies.
How would she know? In that case, your choices are, well, porn visual or written and fantasies.
Which are not the same as "real life," no, but at least IMO are not "lame". If you CAN talk to her, even a little, then the scenarios are more varied.
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You could talk about a hot fantasy, get all worked up, and then have "regular" sex not the same, no, but steps in that direction. If you respond enthusiastiy, that could encourage her to take more steps in that direction.
So if you bring something up once and she does "Ew! That's greaky!
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I'd start slow.
Read aloud or have her read a hot story, or watch some porn with mild domination together, and indicate that you find it hot. Bring it up again every now and then, but not like a bulldozer.
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